• To be considered for membership an individual or couple must attend at least 2 ClubFEM^® parties.
• Decisions about membership are made by the ClubFEM^® Executive Committee.
• Membership in ClubFEM^® provides an automatic invitation to all ClubFEM^® functions and eligibility to attend parties at other ClubFEM^®Chapters, all of which are within the  ClubFEM^® International Network.

 
ClubFEM^® members agree to abide by the following ClubFEM^® protocol at parties and events:

• ClubFEM^® members agree to be in the FemDomme and male submissive roles exclusively at ClubFEM^® parties and events.
• There is no requirement for Dommes or subs to engage in BDSM play (scenes). Although some may choose to play, many people attend parties to socialize and learn techniques by watching others.
• Males are to behave respectfully to all Females at all times.
• All ClubFEM^® slaves are expected to bring an attitude of servitude and submissiveness and should be willing to serve refreshments and treat the Women respectfully. Slaves are not obligated to engage in any form of play without consent and negotiation.
• Males are to address Females as Mistress or other proper titles as designated by that Female.
• ClubFEM^®is strictly a social organization and there will be no promotion of any domination for profit businesses.
• Dominant attire for Females may include dressy leather, latex, vinyl, modest lingerie and/or bossy business suits.
• Although males are usually expected to appear semi nude in a slave collar and a thong at ClubFEM^® parties, other dressier submissive fetish or cross-dressed outfits are also encouraged, but must also include the required slave collar.
• A leash, wrist and ankle cuffs are optional. Boxer shorts and men's briefs are not considered appropriate attire under any circumstances.
• Females are to refrain from touching or commanding a collared slave without his Owners permission.
• Males who wish to be available to any Domme for servitude or BDSM play scenes will wear a pink ribbon on their collar. However, wearing a pink ribbon dos not obligate a slave to engage in play nor does it negate the need to negotiate a scene.

• People are expected to act in a sane and consensual manner at all ClubFEM^® parties and events.
• Impairment by alcohol or other legal drugs is not permitted. People who are impaired will be asked to leave.
• No illegal substances are allowed at ClubFEM^® parties and events.
• Safewords or gestures are to be used at all ClubFEM^® sponsored activities. Suggested safewords are:
  • "green" = within limits
  • "yellow" = close to limits (proceed carefully)
  • "red" = over limits (stop immediately)
  Safety is the number one concern, particularly when with a new submissive. Other personal safewords may be used as long as they are communicated beforehand. When it is not possible to use a safeword, some type of gesture should be agreed upon.

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